like i said, i make mistakes. i know that my personality can be brash. i have a smart ass mouth. i may say things that may hurt people's feelings. but if you don't tell me, i won't know. i can't read minds. i'm talented but not that talented. tell me if i've offended you in some way. if i did something to you for whatever reason, tell me. don't just stop talking to me. don't just sit there and let it linger. my sister does that. she'd get pissed off and then not say anything. and i would have to tell her "if you were mad, say something". she would brush it off but still carry the resentment. give me the opportunity to apologize and make amends. regardless of whether to you forgive me or not, at least allow me the chance to make things right. but giving me the silent treatment... why? if i don't know that i am the cause of you not talking, how do i make it right... or at least apologize for my mistake. i'll ask once if you're ok. if you tell me that you are but continue to give me shade, i let it go. i don't keep hounding you or asking if i did something wrong. that's what guilty people do. they want to know if you've discovered the dirt that they did so they keep running in behind you to find out when the shoe is going to drop.
these last few days have taught me that you should say what's on your mind. don't wait until it's too late and that person is no longer here. yes it may hurt but at least you've had your say and that person know how you feel. they can either make it right or leave it be. either way, you've made your peace.
